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#stayhome #school & #survive

Let's first address the monkey in the room ...

It's been silent here. 
For good reason with all things chasing sanity and survival. 

Rather than a bunch of words you may or may not read, let's get you caught up with a picture glimpse into what the Broersma #stayhomestayhealthy has looked like this Spring.

{ Distant Learning. }

When news of school shifting too distant learning, I first panicked gathering all the ideas
and then attempted to execute a plan.
Pinterest is great. Pinterest has the ability to expose two types of people: Always Nailed It or 100% Failed It.
I had great intentions those first few weeks of school being put into action in our home. We homeschooled for seven years so I knew the steps and process. The catch was some students weren't as receptive to my Pinterest ideas as I was to implementing them daily. Regardless, we made it work... through tears, struggles, redirection and long walks to reset... we have been making this work.
Baylee's teacher has been reading stories to her on Marco Polo and Charlie has been crushing his school goals with impressive self motivation. Addison helped Myriam with her reading for a bit then shifted to her
online school program.
Tim and I are so proud of the kids for making the abrupt shift in learning. Did we do it well? Not everyday.
And that's okay.
Summer is almost here and some learning goals will stay in place throughout the
next few months which is okay too.
Our homeschool cart is now a part of the living room and I'll try to squeeze
learning when the moment presents itself.
If this has taught me anything, it's that our decision to put the kids in school was a healthy choice.
Yes, I'm Mom and teacher, but I long for the day when I'm just Mom.

{ Projects & Play }

We found many opportunities to learn outside through activities we call chores. Picking up winter branches, planting seeds and taking care of the lawn gave a much needed break from being inside. God has blessed us with a dry Spring. Yes, we've had some rainy days but more than anything, the skies have been blue and warm enough to step into the fresh air. 

{ Learning & Growing. }

Our seeds did okay. Some grew and others got moldy or stolen by our neighborhood squirrels. Even the cute popsicle stick birdhouse Myriam made was robbed of its birdseed by the pesky squirrel hanging from the gutter. Our snap peas are now well out of the ground and beginning to make their way up the garden trellis. Our walks through the neighborhood always prove entertaining as the girls chase bunnies, seek out deer, look for animal tracks and watch the skunk cabbage almost grow taller than Miss Bee herself. 
Charlie's learned to have guitar lessons via Zoom or FaceTime even though his practicing hours have lessened slightly with outside distractions. 
I'm most thankful for the thing I hate the most; screen time. Baylee can actually sit still while learning from ABC Mouse and for that I'm grateful. 

{ Self care. }

I'm about ready for another haircut and have had to walk away from my scissors many times over. In a weak moment I did manage to foil my own hair and even tried putting my human cutting skills into dog grooming with our poor puppy cutting her locks too. Major kudos to dog groomers. I will never do that again. 
As for skin care, well, Addi is always so good to do the masks, wash the face and include her little sisters in the pampering process. 
I haven't taken hair clients for years, but still trim the family's hair. It's been awhile since not having the ability to reach over my head due to recovery.  When family members called and told me they were looking special, I pulled the basics outside and set up shop in the carport. No worries, the family wore masks and hands were washed. As for the family gray hairs collecting among a few... well, the stores are closed and I'm all out of color so truth be told you're no brunette any longer. 

{ Recreational Play a.k.a. PE }

This is vital. This is necessary. 
Myriam and I have been taking two mile walks searching for teddy bears and hearts in neighboring windows while sharing in deep discussions or soaking up the silence. Our loop usually takes us to Dad's office for a cup of water and back home through the forest. We've also had many trips to Berthusan Park getting lost on the trails and letting Millie explore in the trees. 
On the warmer days, Charlie and Myriam took on a new adventure of floating down the creek. Quite comical to watch and thankful it's not too deep. I see this happening more often with summer fast approaching. 
Addi told me I needed new hiking friends after our Sunday hike up Sumas Mountain. We didn't make it to the top but a little over two miles in for lunch proved good for all of us. 
The benefit of all things being cancelled and closed is family time. 
Yes, somedays I think we've had too much, but Tim knew we needed to see a different set 
of four walls for this weekend. 
A quick trip to Vantage, WA was exactly what all of us needed. The drive there was enough for me. Silent. 
It was incredibly refreshing to not have bickering, teasing or whining the entire way over the pass. Once we arrived at the private campsite, Grandpa Doug greeted us with a hilariously, well thought out scavenger hunt for the kids. The only piece he forgot was to look up at the growing gray clouds and massive downpour that led us all running down the hillside being pelted with twenty-five mph winds and sideways rain. 
You know it's stormy when the tumbleweed passes you by sprinting back towards the motorhome drenched in sunny clothing. Ahh, no worries. None of us were hurt and the hunt continued the following morning with the kids "saving the world from the coronavirus." 
You can only imagine the eye-rolls and jokes made about this game getting the kids hiking two miles up a steep hillside all for ice cream at the end. 
And no, the water was not warm which is why you only saw these two crazies swimming in it. 

{ Break time. }

We now await the reopening of all the things and cross our fingers for in person classrooms next fall...
And if not, we will make that work too. 

Happy Birthday Man Cub

Our Man Cub turned twelve. 
A complete adoring, sensitive, compassionate, hardworking, smart, musical, caring dozen years of being our one and only boy child. 
Charlie's been working on his skills of desiring to be "just like Dad" when he grows up from the early years on and has perfected the look of the Mini Me of his Dad. 
The once chunky baby, has grown almost as tall as his Mama and can light the room with his sweet smile. He's quick to offer hugs, never goes to bed without saying his "I love you's" and, even though he fights well with his sisters, he still loves them all like any prince should when 
princesses are around. 
Playing his guitar and basketball continue to be his extra loves while doing chores remain low on the list of to-do's. Organization skills are lacking, but according to teen boy mom's, I'm prepared for further mess, stinky rooms and lack of tidiness being a lack of priority in his life. 
A happy dozen and parents to scream a dozen more times of how proud we are of what you've accomplished and will accomplish in your life. 
Thank you for loving Jesus and making it easy to love you. 
Happy Birthday Charlie!

 
{ Doin' the work.}

 { The handsome hunks of the home. }

 { Middle kid. We can always be so dramatic. This was a simple time-out turned into a complete meltdown. Parenting often requires the ability to not laugh while holding your ground. }

{ Adventurous is just one way to describe Charlie. }


 { After tourney hot shots with Nate Robinson }

{ I pray he always wants to be my date. }

Shhh... She's Off to High School!

 

How did this even happen? 

My Mama heart is still walking our oldest to preschool with her hand tightly laced between mine. 
Her voice not yet confident then to share with others, yet friendships grew, play dates existed and then Addison's first graduation from preschool. From there we began our journey with Meridian Parent Partnership School (Mp3) as we home schooled for seven years before entering Ebenezer Christian School in grade seven. 
Jeff Caraco was our SLPC (Student Learning Plan Coordinator) for all but six months of our time at Mp3. We started as an off campus student where each week Teacher Jeff would call and check in with Addison. The first year was rough - usually the call was Jeff talking and myself in the background encouraging any conversation. Over the course of years having weekly phone calls, Addison eventually started to share more about her week at home telling Teacher Jeff what she had learned and answering any other questions he asked. We spent countless hours with Explode the Code, Spelling Workout, Daily Grams and Math-U-See along with many other text books that spread across our dining table and homeschool corner at home. 
Launching Success knew us by first name as we often came in for more supplies. 
For the last couple years of homeschooling, Addison (and Charlie too) transferred into campus students attending the Mp3 campus twice a week. A brief break for me but also a challenge for the kids to interact with other students and teachers. This is when we began to see the incredible change burst from our sweet Addi as one of her favorite memories from mp3 was giving her TED Talk. 
From not speaking a word in two years of preschool to giving class speeches, we as parents could not have been more proud of the many accomplishments. 


What's Going On?


 
Well, I was not expecting the wave of grief that slapped me across the face on Thanksgiving. Mom had the table set up days before the meal was even in the oven having everyone sitting just so. What she didn't take into account was that dinner was served during Baylee's nap time leaving an open seat at the table empty. Dad said "Amen." We all looked up, and in unison, our eyes fell to the empty plate and 
seat that instantly provoked tears. 
There is this oddly strange feeling of tug-of-war between joy and sadness. The bi-polar opposite of having no words, no measurement to explain the longing I have for my sweet sister and in the same moment experiencing overwhelming joy knowing she's free of pain and disease. I would, simply put, explain my condition as being an, at most times, hot mess! 
Thanks to the glass of wine it took the edge off and allowed me to relax some with the family. 
No guarantees for Christmas on having my crap together. 

We celebrated Myriam's sixth birthday with a Pinterest attempted Pony Cupcake Cake! Oh, she loved it! Can't say Addi and I nailed it, but at least you knew what it was suppose to be. Baylee helped herself to the leftovers the next day as we set up Christmas lights outside. She obviously enjoyed the treat as did Myriam sneaking many herself.

It's a Teenagers Life Now


Addison summed it up herself when making this poster for above her locker. 
What I would add to this list is...
Compassionate, caring, always willing to serve others and her family, creative, talented, 
confident, brave and courageous. 
I'm struggling to believe we have a teenager in our home because I know that come tomorrow she'll be driving away to college. We kept the celebrations low-key, per her requests, this year with a trip to DQ for blizzards and a dinner of buttered noodles at her favorite, Olive Garden. If I had my way I'd have balloons, streamers and a massive cake, but that's simply not our daughter. Instead, we sat together early in the morning, on the couch, sipping our coffee as I got mushy with Mom-Talk about reciting how proud I was of our oldest baby. 

A Day of Play

A year ago Addison began her journey with orthodontics. 
She started with top braces and the Herbst Appliance which Daddy felt terribly guilty for her having to endure. Addi quickly became squeaky every time she opened her mouth and found many foods unable to eat because of the new jewelry. Somewhere in this process, Tim made a deal that in a year when it is removed, the two of them would take a day trip to Disneyland. No where in the paperwork did I sign up for that agreement, but with these two big kids, it was going to be impossible to stop them. 
Last week the day came when the Herbst came out and bottom braces were glued on. 
Done. Flights booked and bags packed.
Off they went for a day of Daddy-Daughter play. What Tim didn't think about was this was the first of four kids that will most likely all need the same orthodontic process...hmmm...do for one; do for all.
Have fun kids...



November Recap

Highlights of the month:
Our Election Party
Thanksgiving at Papa & Nana's
Afternoon's with friends
Issac's (Charlie's friend from Mp3) & Talan's (cousin) Birthday Party
Cambodia 
Perch & Play fun date
Holiday Starbucks Drink menu
Painting Addison's room - little girl to tween
Kids surprisingly getting along really well! Success!


We decided to turn the mayhem of the election into a little family party which led to some history lessons and education on the process. The girls helped make the star cookies as I worked on getting the jello to set. We went for the all American blue and white theme for dinner having little smokies (a step up from hot dogs), potato salad and fruit kabobs along with sweet treats and red vines symbolizing our country needing to stand together no matter what the outcome. The kids really enjoyed watching the news as many questions were asked and the opportunity to explain in a healthy way laid before us. As like many of you, we started to fall asleep and didn't make it all night. The big announcement was a delayed replay with the kids by our sides watching speeches and quite frankly, laughing hysterically at Trump's son who clearly should have gone to bed himself. Poor kid was yawning, shaking himself awake and doing head bobs.

Home Tweet Home

Being a parent stretches and challenges you to go places or do things you normally may not try...
All for the sake of your child.
Allowing a bird in my living room is doing just that. 
I'm not a bird person. Not really a pet person. But I do understand the joy a pet brings to a kid.
Addison is over the moon thrilled to be a bird owner. 
It took many trips to Bellingham to search for the perfect cage, toys and locate a hand fed-tamed baby parakeet. We finally found what Addi wanted at Hohl Feed & Seed. It was there we found the sweetest bird lady who was raising seven week old parakeets. We brought the cage in a couple days later for Addison's chosen parakeet to adjust to his new home. Janice was great giving pointers to Addi about how to be a bird owner and what's best for her bird. She's been raising birds for thirty years. I'll take her word over mine. 

Introducing Elvis.

{ Picking out her tweety bird. }

The Transition From Flip Flops to Tall Boots

Summer ended with a big bang and reluctant kids to see it go. 
Grandpa Doug flew all his grandsons to Stehekin along Lake Chelan where they crammed into his plane and spent a night exploring, swimming and eating like grown men. With Charlie gone and Miss Bee on a visit, I then took the older girls on a lunch date to The Mill and explored a little of downtown together. 
Our family, along with many other family and friends, surprised Nana with a back yard party celebrating her 60th birthday with burgers and cupcakes. 
We also braved the heat and spent all day at The Northwest Washington Fair. We ended up splitting the group as Tim took the older ones on rides and I took the melted young ones home. 
Charlie spent time on the boat fishing, catching crab, hiking and enjoying his time with Papa, Nana & Auntie Traci. There were last of the season sleepovers, school shopping trips and BBQ's all before the rush of shelving our exposed toe shoes for tall boots. 

{ Cousins & a cool uncle by the campfire. }

...and Friends are Friends forever...


What a true gift it is that those we've picked have stuck with us and given us memories, laughter and encouragement when needed. Tim and I are proud of our kids who have made some awesome friends through school, church and around home. I can't imagine doing life without Jesus; I can't imagine doing life without His blessings...
friends.

She's The Perfect Dozen

one: Jesus follower
two: helper
three: compassionate
four: organized
five: humorous
six: smart
seven: independent
eight: nurturer 
nine: kind
ten: sweet
eleven: foodie
twelve: adventurous

I Hear You Nemo!

I feel a little bit like Nemo when he wakes his Dad up yelling with glee:
FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL! FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL!

Yep, I will be totally honest in saying I am that parent this year who was THRILLED to see that school has started. The routine. The early bedtime. The structure built in to every aspect of our lives. The first day of school has been more like a trickle into school with three bodies going three different directions. 

Charlie was up by 6:55am and ready to go by 7:05am on his first day of school. 
"Let's do this." 
The kid was beyond excited for his new adventure! I sent him on the bus and shortly after met him at Ebenezer for the convocation service where the gleeful child kept turning around and waving at me. I know this will only last a few more years until the boy child will become embarrassed to even say hi to me. I will cherish his bright smile and mouthed words of "I love you," until that day comes. 


ALMOST...Time for School

There is some panic, excitement and nerves all bundled together for this upcoming school year that is quickly approaching our family. 
We've made some pretty big changes that are quite different than any years past and once found, our routine and school schedules should be absolutely perfect for our kids. It has our three Little's in three different schools, but each one with their individual needs being perfectly met. 
It started last Spring when Charlie and I finally decided to make a huge change; time for me to be just Mommy and not teacher. Yes, I cried and he smiled with glee, but in the end it's what's best for him and his needs. We filled out registration forms for Fisher and talked about having to be up and out of PJ's by 7:30am. We stressed the longer days, potential bus rides and homework schedules that come home after the school hours are completed. Still...happiness. I know we made the right choice, but both Tim and I didn't have peace about it quite yet until we had the doors open up to explore Ebenezer Christian School. 
With the nudge of a few neighbors and friends we interviewed Mr. Buss then the roles reversed and we sat in the hot seats followed by Charlie taking an entrance test. Can I just say how terribly nervous I was for this??? If this kid bombs this test it not only reflects his poor learning abilities but MY ABILITY to teach him! Thankfully, Charlie did amazing impressing the principal and reading through the fourth grade sight words with ease. It only proved to me once again that he does so much better for others than myself. 
In two weeks, Charlie will step up on to his first bus ride to school (you bet I'll be taking pictures!) and will start a new journey of education in a "real" school. Tim and I are really excited for the friendships that he has with a few third grade buddies already and those that will bond over the years to come. 
Thank you Ebenezer Family for welcoming us and making this change for this Mommy an easy one!
Addison will be staying put exactly where she flourishes best: at home starting sixth grade. She will be continuing with Mp3 (Meridian Parent Partnership Program) and Teacher Jeff Caraco will be our go-to student coordinator for the sixth year in a row now. She plans to take three campus classes then four here at home. With just one student at home, writing student lesson plans was an easy afternoon task and all but one purchase order has already been made. Many of Addi's friends have started on newer education plans at different schools so she's a little sad that she won't be able to see them twice a week at school. I give it a year and she'll be stepping on the bus with Charlie.
Myriam is super happy to be starting school again at Lynden Middle School in the Intermediate Preschool Program. Just yesterday she told me she was ready to go to school! This year she will be going in the afternoon for a couple of hours four days a week. Her backpack is already to go and school clothes are washed and hanging for her to wear. Thanks for hand-me-downs I didn't have to purchase hardly anything besides shoes to get her ready for the fall. What I love most about Myriam's school program is the hands on, one to one teaching with all the aid, therapy and attention needed for her little mind to grow and learn. Both of us are ready for a routine for her to fall into soon!
So, with a small list of things needed we are almost ready to say...
TIME FOR SCHOOL!
Here's to the last full week before packed lunches, sharpened number two pencils get busy and first day of school begins!



And So it Begins...

Our hearts are a bit breaking for our oldest as the hardware has been cemented in and the progress begins to create the perfect smile. 
What used to be is no longer as welcomed updates have been created in the orthodontist industry. No longer is there outer headgear; it's been replaced with hydraulics and screws attached by spacers on the inside of your mouth. Gone are the days where you could face plant your pillow and still breath due to the headgear providing space around your face. Instead of minutes with the plaster in your mouth, it's now seconds. It's the same office I went to back in third grade, but the staff looks different and there's new carpet. 
Most everything else looks the same.
Addison will be living off of milkshakes, Motrin, soups and purees for a few days until her mouth becomes adjusted to the new look. 
And just when she's adjusted, we'll shake things up again and add braces. 
Beautiful smile or money saved for a car? This adventure nearly broke the bank!
You'll thank us later metal mouth...I mean brace face...oh, bad mommy! 
It's out of my system now...

 { Looking good babe. }


Can She Really Be 11?


In the rush of packing and organizing where everyone will be and go during our trip, was Addison's 11th birthday! Thanks to some dear friends, we were able to enjoy the last of the hot summer sunshine as Addi and her friends splashed in celebration. 
I honestly can't believe it's been 11 years since I held her for the first time. 
Oh, those sweet moments where it was just the three of us and there was no pull of attention from others. It's amazing how you can look at your babies face and years later still see those engaging eyes, the innocence of her youth and need for mommy to still hold and snuggle what I see as my baby girl. How the newborn face then changes into a pre-teen, but still holds the qualities you held for the first time...it was like yesterday. Oh, sappy moment. 
Addison, Daddy and Mommy were smitten by your beauty from the moment we met you and still are stunned by your beauty today. God has helped you walk through some silent moments and gave you a voice that now encourages, has fun, shares advice and offers compassion to those that need it. You have made solid friendships that we all adore and know that Jesus loves you which gives you a foundation for life. We are so proud of how hard you study for school and love to see your gift of creating things turn into beautiful art work. I love that my love for organizing things has been passed on and that you have a talent of styling hair. Daddy loves that he has a riding partner for his motorcycle. 
You balance us well!
Thank you for trusting us with your life. Thank you for giving us grace in our parenting and forgiving the first time try-outs as we grow with you. Thank you for always offering to help even when you don't feel like it and being an amazing big sister...button pushing and all!
If you can slow down the growing up I would appreciate it...
Knowing that won't happen, thanks for wanting to still hang out with your Dad and Mom, for going and having your nails done together and for still needing a snuggle or two. Your beauty goes further than skin deep as Jesus flows through you like a shining star. Addison, you are a complete joy to watch as you grow and mature. Happy Birthday Sweets!

{ Pool Party }

{ Annie, Addi, Kayden, Eve, Jordan, Teija, Darla & Pearl }


 { Shark bait, Crunchy Seashells, Long Boards (bacon per request), Fish Chum & Pool Noodles. Addi choose to make her own cake and did a fabulous job. }

{ Thank you Hollie for the delicious Cake Pop Beach Balls! }




Summer in a Nutshell

This has been a recorded breaking warm summer as the skies have delivered us suntans, sweat stains and reasons to cool off. We have always been a family that would rather stay home, playing with our neighbor friends or intense board games, than driving a miserable 20 minutes to an off-site location. The kids despise long car rides; even those to Bellingham! Yes, we've had a few moments of "I'm bored," but, I'm quick to respond with a list of chores or activities to challenge them with in their state of way-ward wandering. We tossed our bigger pool from last year and replaced it with a foster-approved, non-fence needed, ankle deep pool. Not as much fun, but it did, and has, provided days of splashing and cooling off from the scorching heat 
we've had these past few months. 
Selling snow-cones helped as well in the mission to stay cool but unfortunately, no fortune was made!
There's also the nasty, iron-laced creek we have that runs through our back yard that brought on new adventures and swings of glee. Tom Sawyer would have enjoyed watching the boys explore through the water beds and creating new games to keep active. From building "dams" to race flip flops down stream to preventing the swing from crashing into black berries, the kids had fun and didn't seem to mind the lack of water flowing south. 
Then you have the excitement of flag football rounding the corner as one sport wraps up and the next starts. It's almost football season so the boys have been practicing lots and introducing Charlie to the details of the game. The kid has game and loves to hang with the neighbor boys especially his favorite, Brevin. Little Charlie may be the youngest, but he certainly doesn't fall to the shortest in the group!
Yes, I could flood the blog with more pictures and stories that had us rolling in laughter but, for now,  just these glimpses of memories. Now is crunch time as I pull together curriculum and prepare for school schedules. Student lesson plans are in the works, school supplies have been purchased as well as clothing that reaches past the ankles and shoes that fit the entire foot. Thank you to Auntie Traci for letting us crash your apartment as the kids swam and spent all our pennies in Portland. 
Thanks Summer for giving us warm hugs, bees a buzzing' and many drinks in hand!


{ Mickey, Addi and Myriam chillin' pink pool side. }


{ Addi Jean; Annie Jean }

{ Them there boys: Charlie, Drew, Brevin & Bailor. }


{ Keep the shoes on...can't see the bottom!}

{ Game is still in play...but it's a cute smile. }

{ Little Charlie, Big Charlie, Drew, Brevin & Bailor. }


{ Chill out. }